While my issues may prevent me from my original plans, there is no reason that I have to give up on life or all my dreams. I just need to modify them to fit the situation. It is not perfect, but doing this can give you a better outlook. Having a more positive outlook can affect the way you live your life.
Sometimes life happens in a way that makes us scared. Sometimes things happen that screw up our plans and goals so badly that we want to give up, that we can't see a happy ending, or that we think we cannot obtain our dreams. Don't give up on your dreams! Re-evaluate them. Start slowly. Start simply and build on that.
I have not written a lot lately. I got on a nice schedule and was becoming so proud of myself because my stats were going up, and people were reading my blog. Then I started having "episodes" again that brought me low and have put me pretty much out of commission for a bit. I… Continue reading What I would like to tell people with an invisible illness
I am going to be honest...I love doing pin up, and I love blogging. I have been blogging for another blog for many years and have contributed to other blogs over the years. I know I should be writing more. However, if you have been following me the last year, you know that I had… Continue reading Self Care is the best care
These trolls are the kinds of people who will "follow" me after I post a body positive post just because they hope I will follow them back. Then, of course, they unfollow me. They will send me a direct message maybe or leave a comment on one or two of my posts. I seriously am not buying it. Basically, what these people are doing is saying, "Hey Fatty, I see you posting on the internets. Buy my shit and lose some weight." What I see is a troll who has no common sense and will not ever get my business.
Sometimes, I feel like I am not in control of my own life, and it makes me mad. I set goals for myself and have a plan of what life should be, and then it derails somewhere along the way. I feel like I have no control over what is going to happen, and instead… Continue reading Sometimes You Just Have to Keep Breathing…
I don't know about you, but life here gets stressful from time to time. I am very busy most days, and sometimes it's hard to stay calm and relax because of it all. However, to keep my sanity, here are some of the things I do to relieve everyday stress that don't take a lot of time.